Making Requests

Vocabulary

食(た)べるた・べるru-verbto eat
待(ま)つま・つu-verbto wait
見(み)るみ・るru-verbto look
座(すわ)るすわ・るu-verbto sit
静(しず)かしず・かna-adjquiet
入(はい)るはい・るu-verbto enter
触(さわ)るさわ・るu-verbto touch
写真(しゃしん)しゃ・しんphoto
撮(と)ると・るu-verbto take (photo)

There are many levels of politeness when asking for things in Japanese.

1. ~てください

Standard request. “Please do…”

食(た)べてください。Please eat.
ここに座(すわ)ってください。Please sit here.
静(しず)かにしてください。Please be quiet.

2. ~てちょうだい (Casual / Feminine)

Similar to ください but more casual.

待(ま)ってちょうだい。Wait, please.
見(み)てちょうだい。Look, please.
ここに来(き)てちょうだい。Come here, please.

3. ~なさい (Command / Authoritative)

Used by parents to children or teachers to students.

食(た)べなさい。Eat!
早(はや)く寝(ね)なさい。Go to bed early!
宿題(しゅくだい)をしなさい。Do your homework!

4. ~しろ / ~ろ (Rough Command)

Very rough, used informally or in emergencies.

食(た)べろ!Eat!
黙(だま)れ!Shut up!
見(み)ろ!Look!

Asking for Permission

Structure: て-form + も + いい + ですか?

食(た)べてもいいですか?May I eat?
写真(しゃしん)を撮(と)ってもいいですか?May I take a photo?
入(はい)ってもいい?Can I come in? (casual)